Thursday, August 7, 2014

A Connect - Disconnect Connection

This month is all about connections here on my blog. It's really a celebration of connections. You know those unexpected, surprise connections that result in life changes? There are good ones, and there are bad ones.

For instance, a good friend in Louisville invited me to spend Labor Day Weekend with her. I was living out of state at the time, so drove in. While there, I received a lead on a job, and met my future husband.

That was a "Connect - Disconnect Connection." I connected with an old friend, met a new friend and my life changed course. By the end of the year, I was married and working at that new job.

Things don't always happen so fast, and they are not always positive. Some disconnects include death, divorce, and disease/illness (the 3 D's). Sometimes, even these devastating disconnects can result in positive changes.

I'm still married, but that job went away when I made a new connection, in the form of a brand new baby boy. He was a definite life change. Another connect - disconnect.

The husband, the new baby, and me - way back when...
Not long afterwards, I was walking down the hall on my way out of church, when I was "accosted" by a stranger who began to kiss my brand new baby all over his face. Don't be alarmed, Anita Edmonds was the wife of our new youth pastor, and soon became one of my closest friends. A lasting connection.The best kind.


Friendships are often the connects that last longest. And many gain their best life opportunities through friends. A little later this month, I'll talk about some of these connections. The ones I've made as I started my writer's journey. I'm going to drop a few names in that post. Maybe yours will be there. I've made a lot of friends since starting down this road. Folks traveling the same route with similar life experiences are often bound together in friendship--a sense of "kinship"--because we understand, better than anyone.

Think about a time in your life, you made a positive connect - disconnect connection. Consider how it changed your life for the better--set you on a new road. It may have been your marriage, or your education, your occupation, or even your encounter with God. I would love for you to share that moment if you have the time, in our comment section.

I've got a couple of guests stopping by later this month to share their experience with connections. I hope you'll stop back in to read what they have to say. And, as always, thanks for stopping by.

1 comment:

Jennifer said...

Why, meeting you and Christina and Fay and Tracy and all my other writing friends, of course. They do say its all in the journey :)